Saturday, March 28, 2009

Marital Obligations

So I was talking to a pretty good friend of mine the other day, and she feels as though when she gets married she isn't obligated to do anything for her husband. She feels that if she feels like doing it, then she will, but she doesn't have to do anything. Of course, she is completely unsubmissive, and hey some guys like to wear the skirt in the relationship, but I prefer my pants!!! Thankfully, my girlfriend/future wife, as opinionated as she is, knows I wear the pants!!! I feel as though in a relationship both parties should do their best to make each other happy, and I feel that in a marriage, both parties have the obligation to do their best to make each other happy. This all spawned from a convo we were having about doing the dishes. I said that I don't plan on washing dishes, and that I don't plan on my wife taking out the trash. She completely disagrees with the notion that the man is the "head of household" and that both parties are completely equal. Now I know how my baby feels, shouts out to Raychelle, but I just think that this is an extremely interesting view of relationship roles. Let me know what you all think!!!

P.S. Babe...can you iron my pants for me? LOL j/k...I love u!!!

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